Question - Answer by e-mail. Recovery. Self-help * LIVE Natalia Weiss. Faith Healer. Life Coach. Start Price USD 200.00 Current Price USD 200.00 Time Left - Bid Count 0 Buy It Now Price - Reserve Price - Start Time Wednesday, November 19, 2008 End Time Saturday, November 29, 2008 Location NY See more about 'Question - Answer by e-mail. Recovery. Self-help * LIVE' Description    If you  feel no good,  if you need to talk,  if you need a help...  Write to me.        I have ability  to pull you out  from any depression in very short  time. My letters are  full of a pure energy,  it has forces  of healing.  It will support you and inspire to change your life  for the best. Confidential. The examples you see below are a typical stories w.changed names.                 All  letters presented here like a samples are much shorter then originals.                  Speaking languages:  English:  talk_to_me888@yahoo.com                                                   Russian:  natasha8828@yandex.ru                                                                     PAYMENT:     PayPal   payments only.          Payment must be received within 48 hours of end of the auction.  After you paid  please, write to me.                                             I will answer you by e-mail  within  24 hours  after receiving payment.  Question:  My husband is a very well known and wealthy man. We have been together for 26 years. He is an excellent provider for the family. I don’t need to work and strain myself. I always have had everything and still do. At home I have a whole mountain of gold. He pampers me. Still, always, even in the first years of our marriage, he has had mistresses. At first I suffered a great deal. But there was nothing I could do. He is not a yielding type. So I have accepted that as a given. This is how I have been living.  Do I love him? No any more. I have always been financially secure and I am grateful to him for that. But sometimes, especially as of late, I feel the coldness and am depressed. I am tired and apathetic. Why I wrote this – I don’t know but I felt better. It would be interesting to have your opinion. Larisa.  Larisa, it is difficult to see myself in this situation. This is because I am so capricious. I need so much from a man, so much that few of them could cope with it. It is not easy – being a real Man. I understand. But NOT a real man would not attract me, no matter how shining the packaging. There is one more trait that helps me to stay free and independent. It is impossible to adorn me with gold. It fades from the nearness of me. So I don’t need it. If you put scale before me and one side put a bucket of black caviar and diamonds and on the other all this complex, precious World  - I would choose It, this precious World. This choice would be easy and simple. I enjoy just simple living. Just breathing, just walking, just flying, experiencing the joy from every day, from wild nature, from the World, learning my lessons from the highs and lows.  All this has happened to be. And it will keep happening. And when the time comes for me to go, I will do it with a smile – because I have lived. And lived through it all. And have seen it all. And found Love.   I have never been rich nor felt bound with weighty chains.  When there was a choice to stagnate or soar, I chose soaring. I have gone wherever I have not yet been. And out there it always turned out better. It could at first be uncertain or even frightening - but I would extend a helping hand to myself and say, “Get going, my dear!” I got used to being unafraid. What could I lose? What? But to lock myself in a cage? What for? To give up everything? For the sake of what?  I tore myself away form the big material world and don’t regret it in the least. We don’t know what tomorrow will bring. So I live for today. And my "today" should, and even must, be beautiful, interesting, gripping and promising. And promising so much!  I will take it and hold it fast and will not give it up to anyone. As I said, I am very capricious. And you?  People are different, I understand. Your situation is not that simple. Yet, thank God, you have one. God gave it to you, did not pass you over. Therefore I am not worried; no Injustice was done…  Like everyone else, you have a Choice. You have it as long as you live. Your choice. Your personal choice, uniquely yours – albeit it would be simpler and less troublesome not to have it. But then it would be really a pity. It would be unfair. It is as if you were standing in line for an airplane ticket and everyone got one but you were passed over - just told you without explanation, “No! We will not give you a ticket; don’t bother looking up to the sky. You do not have a choice. All you can do is crawl. This way and that way, forward and back, covered in gold or not – but just crawl. You have no other choice. Period.”     This is truly frightening. But you, Larisa, have a choice. In your heart of hearts you are feeling just this, and it is agonizing. A choice granted to an adult.  Yet I am happy for you. I envy you. If you would only want, you could experience ecstasy from a great change. You can take part in a your own transformation as a person. You can start constructing your new life. You can do so much, if you would only want. I could commiserate with you but I will not. On the contrary, I should tell you that since you have written this letter you want to, you are ready to change. And you definitely will. You will turn your life upside down and, thanks to that, will achieve equilibrium and firmness. Then you will throw away the fetters that weighed you down and feel relieved. And you will feel a surge of strength.  I will not give you advice. But I would like you - just for once - to feel free. This wonderful, incomparable sense of soaring is worth the risk. Try it. Question:  Two months ago my husband and I were divorced; I could not forgive him his betrayal. We have two small children. The younger is not yet a year old. I understand that I must pull myself together, that time heals. I understand all this but I just have no strength. I cannot forget my husband; I simply ache for him. I try to see him as little as possible, but it is hard for me to be without his help. Advise me how to stop thinking about him.  Tanya.   There is one absolutely reliable and simple method  - but it requires concentration and total compliance Schedule your day so as not to have any free time left and carry out exactly what you have written down. In other words, for a while live strictly by the schedule. This is very important when you are so dependent on another person. You must keep a notebook. Every evening write your schedule for the next day - minute by minute. It only seems impossible to live by the schedule. In your situation it is simply necessary. If you want to do it – try. In the very first days you will notice a change in your mood and in your behavior. You will no longer be you, but a girl who is very busy with most important things. She will be unable not to do what she must. She would be a James Bond girl. Play this game. When you start playing, do it in earnest. Immerse yourself completely into this role. Nothing should prevent you from carrying out what you have planned. The notebook is a must. With it you are a different woman – from morning till night. You busy every last minute with most important matters. If at six in the evening you are scheduled for running or yoga nothing should stand in your way – even a small child. I went through this, so take it from me: you will do it if you want to. You would be waiting for your husband and he would arrive. He will try to engage you in conversation but you will smile, say that you are busy, put your hat on and out you go. Nothing should distract you from what has been marked in the notebook. This is crucial.  The notebook is something just for the time being, later everything will become spontaneous. You would learn to see what is important without having written it beforehand and you would notice that in the evenings it would become easier and easier to draw up your schedule for tomorrow. In it more and more frequently would appear undertaking that give you pleasure.  First you would write: “date” – and it will be an appointment with a girlfriend. Then, a month later, again, “date” and this time it would be a date with a man you met on the street during your run. Then you would write “date” again. And this would be a date with the best man on Earth.   Stride towards happiness with firm and confident steps. I remember how I would schedule my minutes while living with two toddlers out in Siberia, and I used to do my running on winter mornings struggling with the wind and competing with it.  It was a happy time, the time of growth.  Your running shoes, you dresses, shoes, your body which must be strong and beautiful just for you, and many other things about you and for you – all of this should be in your notebook... Write it down and do it, Princess! A strict daily schedule and 100 percent preoccupation with yourself. Yes, you, not even the children. Yourself. The children will grow up one-way or another; I am not joking or mocking you. You are a mother – it is true and it is important. But first and foremost you are a Woman. You are a Queen.   Question:  It could be a senseless question. And yet… How does one get into the habit of a healthy lifestyle and good nutrition? I have come to the end of my tether, got fat and ugly. I understand everything, but just cannot control myself. I eat all day, even when I am not hungry. Is it spiritual weakness or just being… dense? Opra.   It is spiritual immaturity. It affects everything. It is source of imagined problems and fears, inability to love, inability to see a situation clearly, inability to understand the essence of things, inability to control oneself. And inability to fly. To answer your question… How can one fly when your belly is full to capacity with all sorts of junk, your wings covered with grease and your eyes bleary? It’s difficult and ugly and scary to find yourself far away from the fridge. Its tight, packed innards, measuring one yard by two, have come to replace the open spaces of the fields and meadows, replace sunlight and faith in one’s strength and success. It made flying impossible.  To be able to fly one must be light, very light. For flying, the most important, the indispensable part of body is the head. Wings, feathers, tail – come after, are secondary. The main thing is the head. If the head is there everything is possible! The happiest and most beautiful birds always have the head where it belongs and it is always busy - a beautiful, clever head with a working brain, clear and healthy eyes, good memory and reflexes. It remembers the feeling of fatigue and apathy the one time when, in the company of hens, it stuffed itself with whatever was around. And cancelled the flight. Closed the door that opens the way to everything. What everything? Everything! Absolutely everything! And so much! A new day and new wind... New cloud formations. Meeting new people, making interesting discoveries, achieving victories. Taking part in everything! A steadfast, unshakable confidence in yourself - that you will not change for the worse, that you will keep your body strong and beautiful forever, not just until you turn 30. That you will always be a winner.  A Queen. Not just in word but in deed. All the doors will open for you, all opportunities put to use. And nobody will ever leave you. All good things will come about, everything you deserve. But you must be prepared for this, always prepared - strong, brave, always willing and able to open these doors. But for now…The fridge door. This door promises so much but delivers nothing. It is a sham. Everything is available, easy, quick. Turn off the brain, close the eyes, and swallow almost without chewing. All that’s fast is not quality.  Osawa used to say, “Drink your food”. To drink the food one must understand why do it. Before eating, before moving your jaws, always use your brains. It is for a reason that they are located so near each other - to make it easier to grasp how necessary is close cooperation between them: the brains and the jaws. In this duo the brains must have priority. They are first in line for food.  Always - not the other way around: you eat, stuff yourself, then grab your head, where the brains are, with “I feel sick! I am nauseous!”. You must remember: brains have priority. Brains come first...Before eating. After eating they are not of much use. Using your brains after eating is just going to harm you. The message they generally send is, “What an idiot I am? I stuffed myself again!” Your self-assessment then drops precipitously and so does your self-confidence.  You mood worsens – and to improve it you open the fridge door once again. It is a vicious circle and you must break out of it.  So, excuse me for being repetitive, first think then eat. Get yourself accustomed to it. Give yourself this opportunity. Don’t let it go by; so much depends on it! It is easy, very easy. Perhaps unusual for you, that’s all. But you must give yourself a chance to put it into practice a few times. Let the jaws do the work after the brains finished theirs. And before that take five minutes to think and ask yourself, “What for? What kind of person will I become? Where will I go? Where will I end up? With whom?”. Think about it. With your brains. The jaws will wait. If you teach the jaws the art of waiting, you will accomplish a lot in life. If we have a car, we try to fill it up with the best quality gasoline so it can travel far without breaking down. It’s the same with our bodies. Good quality, fresh, thoroughly chewed food is guarantees long, happy, beautiful, wonderful life. What is it I like about this life? I like that we have to shape our own personalities. We should take the right steps; nobody will do it for us. This is great! Terrific! Nobody will take away from us this opportunity – to behave the way we want, the way we choose. The way we should. To live and take from life everything, not just a bit. We should therefore teach ourselves to think, to reflect, as early as possible.  We should always use our brains. To be able to fly. To be free. This is bliss. Whoever experienced it, would never exchange it for surrogates.  Habit  is something to work on. Get yourself into the habit. Force your not to give up something apparently tasty, but get yourself used to like the right things - what you need, what is important. Make yourself think before you eat. Do it every day; at first force yourself. Then your will get used to it and this - the right way - will become second nature. But now… Talk to yourself. Don’t turn away from yourself. Ask yourself honestly: what is it I want?This is what you will be getting. I am happy for you. All the people get what they want, what they aim for, what they aspire to. Life is fair this way, I am sure. So much depends only on you. Don’t deny yourself the opportunity to walk through life on  the right and beautiful path.    Question: How does one learn flying? I was very touched by your answer to my girlfriend. My situation is still worse, I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. If I start describing everything that’s happened to me I will get hysterical and will again be unable to finish it. What should I do – pregnant, abandoned? How can I be flying? And what about later? With a little baby? My parents are helping me; I have no problems with money. Still, I’m afraid that there will be no flying for me, ever. Olga   Whoever has wings cannot help flying. Under any given circumstances, no matter what the difficulties she is right above them.  What is flight? It is Freedom. It is Courage. You asked me, “What kind of freedom can one have being pregnant or with an infant?” My answer is - the best kind! The freedom to look forward to something, the freedom to prepare, the freedom to ponder, think, draw conclusions, memorize, study, remember this lesson about life the way it should be remembered. The freedom to let go, forgive, be indulgent. The freedom to tolerate. The freedom to get ready for flying. Clean the feathers, clean the wings, cherish them. And get ready, get ready. Enjoy the rare, interesting situation that comes about a couple of times in one’s lifetime: pregnancy, childbirth, an infant. Take all the best of it and preserve it. Make these years the best time of your life, the time of true motherhood. You are free from work, from unnecessary hustle and bustle; concentrate only on the baby and on yourself. Cherish that time and yourself being a part of it.   Is it difficult to fly? Husbands – piglets, mistresses, betrayals, passions, trash. All this weighs down on the flight, but does not cancel either it or the preparation. Everyone has and will be have difficulties, perhaps frequently. Life is ever changing. It could even happen that you will change and change your affections. “And fly…”.  But this is not the flying I wrote about. It is flying on the ground, close to the earth, Then you would indeed keep looking over your shoulder searching for some sort of conveyance – a broom, a mop, an airplane ticket. You would climb on the roof to see if it is flying weather, if the children are at school, if the mother-in-law is not looking. And again search for suitable conditions for flying. But one can really fly while sitting on the couch, surrounded by little children, tied hand in foot. And your man will return, walk into the room, look into your eyes and gasp, “How far away she is!”   Even in this situation be strong and set steep goals for yourself. Create your personality. After giving birth, get yourself in great physical shape. Learn a foreign language. Learn anything you like – dance, yoga, butterfly stroke, anything at all but improve in that field. Additional skills and abilities, new strength and confidence will enable you to soar with greater ease.  Surprise yourself with something. And  keep learning – for as long as you  live. I always insist that physical prowess, strength – should be the first item on your list. A strong woman is always beautiful! No matter what kind of appearance she was given by nature. The desire to fly is an important beginning. One must learn to fly. Real flying is not complicated; on the contrary, it is very easy. Because it is real. Professionals always find it easy, don’t they?  If you become a master of high, unconditional flight no external circumstances will stop you; will not break your wings, will not let you drop.  The flights in question are not the ones of the body and not even the mind. They are not dreams, not games, not cinema, not just for show. Flying high is an independently acquired spiritual strength, not to be ruled by anyone from the outside. How does one learn to fly? One must want it so much that the wings will rise on their own and it will be impossible not to soar. You will be unable just to look under your feet, automatically putting your trust into a narrow path to a dead end, stumbling and letting yourself fall. You will be unable to humble yourself, disgusted at putting up with being powerless, unable to be weak and cowardly.   The wings will rise on their own if you could firmly and definitively say “no” to your ego and laugh at yourself. The wings will lift you and will surprise you by their superb technology. They will raise you high and effortlessly. And everything that seemed frightening and insoluble will remain far below. You will be looking only ahead, overcome all the troubles with ease and speed - like puddles on the roadway, like mud after the rain. When the weather is bad see only the good part – the lashing, stinging water of the downpour washing away mistakes and engendering the necessary changes, long awaited transformations. These changes occur everyday, feel them. The essence of life is motion. Today is no longer what was yesterday. You must become mobile and flexible so you could participate, not just observe.  Participate but do not worry. Do not wait for anything, do not be prepared for the worst or the dangerous. But if it occurs, accept it. Accept absolutely everything. With a smile! With gratitude! And ask for more. Ask for it sincerely. Master the art of loving. Experience passion, pain, parting, betrayal… Anything at all and the more the better – for a kind of spiritual training. And again accept it with a smile, laughing. Learn to laugh at all times! Most of all when you don’t feel like laughing. Precisely then. This is the only way to learn flying..    Outings to bars and discotheques – is not flying. Being unfaithful out of spite – is not flying! Artificial bitchiness – are not flying! Flirtation is not flying!  Being natural, quiet, soft, tender, giving, accepting, courageous and strong – is!  Courage and strength is flying high!           Place a Bid!